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So often when one is engaged in a family law dispute the tendency is to want to get the other spouse or beat the other spouse.\u00a0 Generally, I do not think that is the right approach, but not because I think that one should give in or be ready to concede to the other party.\u00a0 Instead, it can be in one\u2019s own interest to be nice.\u00a0 It certainly helps to reduce conflict between parties in most situations.<\/p>\n

Keep in mind that being nice does not mean one cannot assert his or her own interests and negotiate firmly and resolutely.\u00a0 It requires a party to be aware of the other party\u2019s interests and conscious of them when one is making suggestions for resolution.\u00a0 I have found in most cases that when we focus on interests and take the time to understand the interests of everyone involved the options for resolution expand and it becomes easier to reach an outcome that is acceptable to everyone.<\/p>\n

This blog post underlines some of the reasons why that is often the better approach.<\/p>\n

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If you wish to discuss your family law situation with one of our professionals, please contact one of us.\u00a0 We will be happy to discuss all the process options available with you.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

So often when one is engaged in a family law dispute the tendency is to want to get the other spouse or beat the other spouse.\u00a0 Generally, I do not … <\/p>\n

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